Trash Talk: How to ask someone to tone it down for the kids

Q: While in line at the grocery store with your kids, you hear the man behind you utter some pretty ugly profanities.  What should you do?

A: Politely ask him to stop.  He probably didn’t see your kids.  If you’re feeling brave and comfortable, ask him to save his trash talk for another venue.  You might feel angry, but a friendly approach is more likely to get results (and avoid anything nasty).   Say something like “Excuse me, would you mind toning down the language?  My son shows off in front of his grandmother whatever new words he picks up.  Thanks!”  If you’re at all uncomfortable, don’t say anything.  Either way, discuss the cursing with the kids as soon as you can.

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