Saturday, December 11, 2010

New Friends: Do you invite the one who introduced you two?

Q: At Jill’s party, you clicked with her friend Ann.  You both love antiquing, and you’d like to ask her to an estate sale.  Can you do so without inviting Jill?

A: It’s always a treat to meet a new person who shares your intersts, and Jill will be thrilled to learn that you and Ann hit it off.  Don’t exclude Jill from the invitation, though–that might hurt her feelings.  She may or may not come along, but it’s important to extend the offer since she introduced you to Ann in the first place.  Once the relationship is launched, you and Ann are free to be on your own.


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