Friday, December 31, 2010

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Friday, December 24, 2010

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Thursday, December 23, 2010

Appropriate Way to attend the wedding


When you begin to plan your wedding, you will discover the possibility that there is a label for each prior to the actual wedding ceremony event rule set. Wedding shower tag is just an example. Wedding shower label shows that he assumes that your shower host, should invite to what people and when you must perform.

The label of a wedding shower dictates that mother or sister of the bride are not allowed to stay in the shower. This rule tag is somewhat broken in the South. Even so, correct n people for hosting your wedding shower should be their bridesmaids.This does not mean that other friends of the bride can not accommodate the ducha.Oftethere are different for different groups who do not know each other wedding showers but the bride that.

Your wedding shower should plan around four to eight weeks before the wedding.
This time frame will depend on whether some guests should come away and if the bride will be available. If the shower is scheduled too close to the wedding day interfere with other wedding plans and this will emphasize that the girlfriend and she won't a good time in the shower. It is definitely incorrect label.

If your bridesmaids are guests at the wedding shower, label suggests that you people invited to the shower. Obviously, the mothers of the bride and groom must be allí.Si there foster families must invite too.If the bride or groom have sisters, should be invited as well.Also you can invite other members of the family, friends and trabajo.Personas companions are not invited to the wedding should not be invited to shower.

Appropriate label claims that they are must write thank you notes immediately after shower nupcial.El wedding shower purpose is to give the bride gifts to help her celebrate.The hostess must have an account who brought each gift so the bride can quickly send thank you notes and show how much she appreciates each of the gifts.

Wedding shower invitations should be approached in the same way that boda.Etiqueta invitations dictates that every invitation to be addressed by hand and must use the format formal.cada guest shower must obtain its own invitation even if you live with someone who is also invited to the shower.

An example of this would be a mother and daughter who live in the same residencia.Las shower invitations must reach their guest houses approximately four weeks prior to the event and invitations should include a reply card that guests can RSVP.Una invitation can include bridal registry information, because it cannot put this information in the invitation of boda.Regalos are expected in a bridal shower, so you are using the label correct bridal shower through the inclusion of the registration information by invitation.








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Wednesday, December 22, 2010

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Sunday, December 19, 2010

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Friday, December 17, 2010

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Thursday, December 16, 2010

Top five reasons why Wedding etiquette is important

Have you ever been to a wedding where there was a clumsy drunk relative at the reception? Or perhaps you have attended a wedding where a guest wearing a dress which was also revealing.


Weddings have developed rules, or tag, that most people know of.It is the few people who don't know that ruin for all demás.Aquí are the top five reasons why the label is an important part of every wedding:


1. Without wedding etiquette, wedding would frankly offensive


Think of it: appropriate tag does not allow that revealing dress or behavior odioso.Una wedding is a sacred, especially for the couple and the tacit rules as the event is far more important event. Without these rules, wedding would be offensive to many.


2. The marriage tag help to gently real event flow


Tag creates an atmosphere of order and ritual; Things just don't happen without it. For example, the newlywed couple often being the first to eat food delivery.If you have to "jump in line" with everyone else, who would have to disrupt to eat their food quickly to exit at the dancefloor that important first dance.


3. Tag sets the stage for a great event


Even before the wedding event, invitation cards help lay the groundwork for that special day.The invitations should not include gift registry information.On the other hand, is supposed to extend from mouth mouth from friends and familiares.Hacerlo correctly, you will create a wonderful experience for the couple and guests.


4. Wedding tag disposes of discomfort


In a perfect world, guests and the couple would know everything about the boda.No label thing hacen.Sin however, even a basic understanding of the tacit rules will help eliminate situations uncomfortable. A couple must be aware of who pays for it at a wedding and guests must know proper attire of boda.Emily Post writes a (more oriented towards the couple) excellent book called label wedding Emily post that helps to explain some of these questions.


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Saturday, December 11, 2010

New Friends: Do you invite the one who introduced you two?

Q: At Jill’s party, you clicked with her friend Ann.  You both love antiquing, and you’d like to ask her to an estate sale.  Can you do so without inviting Jill?

A: It’s always a treat to meet a new person who shares your intersts, and Jill will be thrilled to learn that you and Ann hit it off.  Don’t exclude Jill from the invitation, though–that might hurt her feelings.  She may or may not come along, but it’s important to extend the offer since she introduced you to Ann in the first place.  Once the relationship is launched, you and Ann are free to be on your own.


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Thursday, December 9, 2010

Vietnamese Pho Etiquette

Vietnamese pho is an easy dish to pick up and enjoy. To the casual diner, consuming pho only requires your ability to place your order, and hold chopsticks and spoon in your hands. For those ready for something more, pho etiquette is your next goal. There are specific customs to follow, while other protocols are left to individual interpretation and choice. Here's a collection of pho etiquette to help you come closer to pho and Viet culture. If in doubt, just remember one thing: showing respect for the elders goes a long way.


I'm assuming you're already proficient with a pair of chopsticks, so here we go.


"Sitting" Etiquette


Before everyone sits down, look at your table and the arrangement of the chairs. Decide where the head of the table is (or the most important sitting position) and yield to the eldest or most respected person in the group. But it gets more complicated. If there's a very respected male (regardless of age,) then he may be the one to get "the chair." If you're not sure, just do the safe thing: Hang back and let things fall into place. Someone will ask you to sit somewhere, and that's what you want. Easy.


"Ordering Pho" Etiquette


Etiquette for ordering pho is fairly straightforward. For first-time pho diners finding yourselves alone in a pho restaurant, a little help from the order taker is obviously required. Needless to say, if you're in a group then assistance from an experienced friend is obvious. For the experienced pho diners, you probably already know what you're doing. In any case, however, it's proper to let the more senior member of the group order first. This is consistent with the "respect for the elders" consideration discussed earlier. Everyone else can select their orders in turn, and the youngsters' foods can be ordered by one of the adults.


"Wiping Down Your Chopsticks and Spoon" Etiquette


It's a habit for most Viet pho diners to wipe their chopsticks and spoon before eating their pho in restaurants. Some will start doing this as soon as they sit down at the table, even before ordering. This is an old habit of pho being a street food for the working class in Vietnam, and old habits die hard. But don't worry, your typical neighborhood restaurants are used to Viet clientele doing this. They do not mind, as it does not necessarily reflect on the restaurant's sanitary condition. In fact it can be a sign of the client "making himself/herself at home," and it is good for the restaurant, especially if it's a repeat customer.


Progressive restaurants are very conscious of the image that wiping chopsticks gives to their shops. They'd rather not have wiping going on as they're trying to attract more non-Viet clientele. Some restaurants have begun to insert pairs of chopsticks in paper sleeves, an admirable attempt to show their care for the clients' well being. No matter, people still wipe, even though they know those plastic chopsticks have been through the commercial washer just like at any other Grade A establishment. Alternatively, a few restaurants also make available individually wrapped disposable wood chopsticks, which seems to successfully prevent wiping.


Now if you're in a high-class, five-star restaurant, then wiping down your chopsticks may reflect badly on you. Be aware of your surrounding, the environment and the other diners. If the restaurant expects you to be a snob, then be a snob and do not make it look like you don't belong.


To wipe or not to wipe? You now know where and when.


"Personalize Your Pho" Etiquette


Once your pho is at the table, everything you do from here on out is your own business. There normally are 2 things you may want to do before digging in: adding the garnishes (sprouts, culantro, basil, lime and sliced peppers,) and adding the sauces (hoisin sauce for pho and hot chili sauce, mainly the Sriracha brand in the U.S.) that are already at the table. Whatever your preferences, don't let anyone tell you "you must have this or you must add that." These are entirely optional per your own taste. Pho does not require you to have anything added, but adding some of these can enhance your pho.


"Slurping Your Pho" Etiquette


You've done everything correctly up to this point. Your original intent to simply grab a quick bowl of pho seems ages ago. But finally, this is the moment! Chopsticks in one hand (left or right,) spoon in the other, you go for it, with gusto. Of course it's really not "anything goes," because civility still counts in any culture. In Asia eating noodle requires slurping, and pho is no exception. So go ahead. Slurp. Just don't overdo it.


"Finishing Your Pho" Etiquette


The proper way to finish a meal in Vietnam is to put your chopsticks across your bowl, like making a bridge. This may conflict with Japanese convention to never bridge chopsticks over a bowl, but Viet traditions follow many Chinese traditions, and this is one of them. While second and subsequent Viet generations outside of Vietnam begin to lose this tradition, it still is the accepted way to end a meal.


Oh one more thing. While it's okay to order pho to go or take out, taking leftovers with you is a no-no. You only have one chance at a bowl of pho. Plus it's disgusting, however you look at it.


"Tipping" Etiquette


Except for more expensive restaurants where service charges or tipping may be added or expected, servers at most "typical" pho shops in Vietnam do not expect tips as part of their service. Tipping, to the common Vietnamese (the working class,) is not what a Westerner may think. Tips are normally looked at as "spare change" or handouts that a worker would rather not accept. Except for beggars, workers, including those providing a service, do not want to be seen as accepting handouts. Tourism to Vietnam will change this over time, but for many places not impacted greatly by foreign visitors, tipping will probably continue to be nonexistent and not expected.


Early Viet refugees carried this exact mindset to the western world. You can still see the same attitude among many Viet even today - this despite living in the U.S. for more than 30 years. With Vietnamese food going mainstream in the U.S., tipping is becoming more commonplace and acceptable by the Viet service providers.


So what do you do? For U.S. restaurants, definitely leave tips. But if you're in Vietnam, leave tips if you're in a big city. If you find yourself in a place out in the boondocks, then tipping is not expected. But if you still must do it, then give it to the server directly and separately, with sincerity and friendliness. Or if the owner and server are one and the same (or family members) then just add more to your payment and ask them to not return the change. Not "keep the change," but "no need to return the change."


"Paying" Etiquette


Americans and other non-Viet diners may have noticed that most Viet restaurants do not present checks at their tables. This is not bad service. It's just because the restaurateurs do not want to look like they're trying to shove you out the door by asking you to hurry up and pay. This is the common Viet restaurant way and it exists here in the U.S. too.


So what do you do knowing all this? Just do what the "regulars" do. Sometime knowledgeable servers will recognize a non-Viet customer and will present a check after your meal (while not necessarily doing the same for Viet customers.) But if this is not the case, then you (and everybody else) just go to the register and pay there. No more confusion.


Summary: Pho Etiquette


There you have it. Pho Etiquette. I know, many of us just want a bowl of pho, but I believe knowing these, and maybe practicing at least some of them, will get you much closer to your pho than you would have otherwise. Pho etiquette gives you pho nirvana, so to speak. Enjoy.


C.T. Huynh, Publisher, http://www.lovingpho.com/

Saturday, December 4, 2010

Trash Talk: How to ask someone to tone it down for the kids

Q: While in line at the grocery store with your kids, you hear the man behind you utter some pretty ugly profanities.  What should you do?

A: Politely ask him to stop.  He probably didn’t see your kids.  If you’re feeling brave and comfortable, ask him to save his trash talk for another venue.  You might feel angry, but a friendly approach is more likely to get results (and avoid anything nasty).   Say something like “Excuse me, would you mind toning down the language?  My son shows off in front of his grandmother whatever new words he picks up.  Thanks!”  If you’re at all uncomfortable, don’t say anything.  Either way, discuss the cursing with the kids as soon as you can.


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Thursday, December 2, 2010

Wedding solutions to major dilemmas of labels

As one of the biggest and most potentially stressful events of your life, getting engaged and subsequently planning a wedding brings with it an onslaught of questions. As times change and weddings evolve, traditional rules of etiquette have followed suit, only adding to the confusion.


To gain perspective, first understand that "etiquette" is above all about treating people with courtesy and making them feel comfortable. When an etiquette question arises, consider the feelings of those who will be affected. Let us steer you through the fog of questions with this quick look at the most common wedding etiquette dilemmas:


Family Etiquette


Introducing Your Parents -


If the bride and groom's parents have not met prior to the engagement, tradition dictates that the groom's family calls and introduces themselves to the bride's family and arranges a meeting. If the groom's parents do not make the first introduction, then the bride's parents should. Nowadays, who makes the first call is irrelevant; all that really matters is that the parents meet. If meeting face to face is impossible, a letter or phone call will suffice.


Introducing Divorced Parents -


If the groom's parents are divorced, the parent with the closest relationship to the groom should take the first step in meeting the bride's parents. If both sets are divorced, the parent closest to the groom should first contact the bride's suggested parent. If no one begins the introduction process, the couple should step in and ensure that everyone meets, while refraining from forcing potentially awkward situations.


Your In-Laws -


The groom's parents often feel left out of the planning process. To avoid this, invite your future in-laws into the initial dialog. You should immediately inform them of your ideas regarding location, date, size and style of the wedding. Take queues on their desired level of involvement, and include them accordingly. Let them make offers to pitch in with finances or planning (here is a useful list of the traditional wedding costs the groom's family is responsible for. Above all, keep them in the informed throughout your engagement.


Invitation Etiquette


Inviting partners and guests -


If an invited guest is married, engaged or living with a significant other, that partner must be included in the invitation. A single invitation addressed to both individuals should be sent to spouses or couples who live together, while separate invitations should be sent to each member of an engaged or long term couple who don't live together. Inviting single guests with a date is a thoughtful gesture, but one that is not required. If you are inviting a single guest with a date, try to find out the name of your friend's intended date and include that person's name on the invitation. Otherwise, inner envelopes may include "And Guest," indicating that he or she may bring any chosen escort or friend.


Inviting Children -


To invite or not invite the little ones - this is a situation that can quickly get ugly. Make your decision and stick with it - then inform your guests through carefully addressed invitations:


Children over 18 who are invited to the wedding should receive their own invitations - regardless of whether or not they live with their parents. If you don't send them an invitation - it's clear that they're not invited.


Children under 18 who are invited to the wedding should have their name included on the invitation. If you're inviting Joe and Mary Smith without their two little ones, their invitation should read "Joe and Mary Smith."


If you're still worried that some guests may add write-ins on their reply card - print the names of those invited on the reply card as well.


Guests Who Ask to Bring a Guest -


Your guests should know better! It is never appropriate for a guest to ask to bring a date, and you have every right to politely say no. However, if you discover that a guest is engaged or living with a significant other, you should extend a written or verbal invitation.


Invitations to out-of-town guests -


Many brides ponder whether or not it's appropriate to invite long distance guests for whom it may be impossible to attend. Use your best judgment. Is this person truly a close friend who would want to attend your celebration? If so, failing to extend an invitation may be insulting. Remember, these days friends and family are often spread all over the country, and people are accustomed to traveling. On the other hand, if you haven't spoken in years, an invitation may look like no more than a request for a gift. In those cases, send a wedding announcement instead, which carries no gift-giving obligation.


Gift-giving Etiquette


Yes, everyone likes to get gifts, and weddings are a perfect occasion for gift-giving. Friends and loved ones customarily honor the commitment of the newly betrothed by showering them with gifts. As the happy couple, just remember to always feel privileged--not entitled. Here's some useful wedding gift etiquette advice:


Do not print registry information on the invitation. Do publicize your registry information by word of mouth only Don't explicitly request cash gifts; your close friends or family numbers can inform guests of your preferences if asked. Do return all gifts - even shower and engagement gifts - if the wedding is called off (so don't be tempted to use any gifts until after the wedding!) Do respond to each gift with a personal hand-written thank you note within two weeks of receiving the gift (or within 2 weeks of returning from your honeymoon) There is no special formula for determining the appropriate amount a guest should spend on a gift. The idea that each gift should cost as much as one plate at the reception is an impractical misconception.
Attire Etiquette
Rules for modern wedding attire have evolved with the times, but there are still traditional standards for fabrics, lengths and styles. Here are some guidelines:


The formality of your bridesmaids' dresses should match that of your wedding dress. Although traditionally the dresses were the same length as the wedding gown, the rise in popularity of tea- and knee-length bridesmaids' dresses has relaxed that rule. As long as the fabric and overall style matches the formality of your floor-length gown, shorter bridesmaids' dresses are perfectly acceptable.


For evening weddings, guests should dress for a nice dinner or event - which includes suits (or black tie) for men and dresses or skirts in sophisticated colors and fabrics for women. Lengths can vary according to the style of the event and location. Female guests may now wear black, but never white.


The Cash Bar Issue


Yes, weddings are expensive. Yes, couples should be on the lookout for budget saving tips. Yes, weddings are expensive - we know. But never - under any circumstances - should you ever consider hosting a cash bar at your reception. Think about it - you would never ask anyone to pay for a cocktail in your own home. People at your reception are still your guests, even if the event is not held in your house. That said, if a full bar is not within your budget, consider these alternatives:


1. Host a soft bar, in which guests can order champagne, beer and wine.


2. Find a reception site that allows you to bring in your own alcohol; you will save serious cash, and anything unopened can be returned for a full refund.


3. Cut down the size of your guest list - the only significant way to reduce costs in the first place.


Asking For Money; Are Money Showers Appropriate?


What is the proper etiquette for monetary gifts? Is it ever appropriate to ask for them? Are "money trees" and "money showers" considered in bad taste? What if I receive an invitation requesting a monetary gift?


Asking for Monetary Gifts -


You're planning a bridal shower, and let's face it - the bride and groom have been living together for three years, already accumulating at least two blenders and a toaster oven. What they could really use is some extra cash (they've been dying to remodel their bathroom.) However, blatantly asking for specific gifts - monetary or otherwise - is in poor taste. Just imagine an invitation that reads: "I could really use some new shoes - please send me some strappy sandals." (Just because Carrie Bradshaw got away with it does not make it ok!) What you can do is let guests know if they ask that the bride prefers cash gifts. Send shower invites without registry information; inquiring guests will ask where the couple is registered, presenting a perfect opportunity to respond with the bride's preference. Some guests will still prefer to give a tangible gift, so the couple should register for a few items. Avoid drawing attention to the cash with a "money tree," or other cash-displaying gimmick, so guests bringing tangible gifts don't feel awkward. Simply display all cards and gifts together for the bride to open and acknowledge.


Bottom line? The happy bride-to-be should always remember to feel privileged, not entitled.


Giving Monetary Gifts -


You're sorting through your mail, and to your dismay discover a shower invitation with a cutesy rhyme such as...


...To make it easy for you


and avoid a shopping spree


We thought that we would have instead,


a little money tree...


Although this presents a clear breach of etiquette, it does not justify an uprising of the etiquette police. Pointing out another's faux pas is just as rude as the original blunder. Here are your options:


Bring a monetary gift - If you choose to participate with a cash donation, give whatever you feel comfortable giving. The shower host will start the tree off for guests by tying a bill or small envelope on the tree, and guests will follow suit. There is usually no way to tell who gave what amount. In this instance, bring a card separate from the cash for the bride.


Bring a tangible gift - I say this with caution, because you don't want to appear as if you're protesting the shower theme. However, if you've put a lot of thought into selecting something memorable for the bride, take pride in presenting her with a thoughtful gift to acknowledge her upcoming nuptials.


For more advice on invitation etiquette, consult this complete wedding invitation guide.


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Cori Russell is editor for Elegala.com and Gala Weddings Magazine. Elegala.com is a comprehensive wedding planning resource with a national directory of wedding venues and services, along with articles, expert advice, checklists and photo galleries to lead brides through every step of the planning process.